Life offers an abundance of opportunities, challenges and teaching moments where adults as well as children and teens will choose how they will respond. We have probably all had moments when we would just like to jump to the finish line. Unfortunately most things require time, patience and perserverance as we take one step at a time. It is beneficial to have a goal or idea of where you would like to end up. The steps we take don’t always lead to good things, so it is important to know what you desire and where you are headed. If you find that you are off course you will have to take additional steps in reverse to get back on the right path.

It has been said that it takes 21 consecutive days to form a habit. Our age and maturity play a big part in the way we respond to different situations and how patient we are as we strive to reach our goals. Let me share a few examples. If you are going to school to gain a skill in a particular area you cannot jump to the finish line. There are tests to pass that require developing good study habits. There are many steps you must take before you graduate. Challenges are the same and require patience, self control and a plan of what you are going to do as you take one day at a time. Illness requires the steps of rest and possibly someone with the skills and knowledge to help you get well. Sometimes all you can do is wait. Desire is the first step if you want to strengthen a relationship. Most things of worth are not easy to obtain!

Likewise there are steps we must take to gain Eternal Life with our families. The Holy Scripture’s outline those steps. Sometimes it may be necessary to take a few steps in the darkness before we see the light. Trusting in God and his timing can give us the strength to put one foot in front of the other as we patiently move forward. Repenting of our mistakes and sins also require certain steps. There is no shortcut to Heaven!

You will never be beat… unless you quit!!! Keep moving forward!

by Tanya Christiansen